Wednesday, October 20, 2004
waiting for the new chn 8 9pm serial to air, bored~
When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure. But when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love, it doesn't really matter who won or who lost. What is important is you know when to hold on and when to let go! Everything happens for the best. If the person you love doesn't love you back, don't be afraid to love someone else again, for you'll never know unless you give it a try.
===>Love strives in hurting. If you don't get hurt, you don't learn how to love. Love doesn't hurt all the time. Though the hurting is still there to test you, to help you grow. Don't find love, let love find you. That's why it's called falling in love because you don't force –“yourself to fall”. You just fall.
===>You cannot finish a book without closing it's chapters. If you want to go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages. Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress. It is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing. The greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on and holding on when you need to let go. We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more than we can love ourselves.
===>On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then get beckon the horse. But don't ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw you the first time. To love is to risk rejection, to live is to risk dying, to hope is to risk failure.But “risk” must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is risk nothing!!!! To reach for another is to risk involvement, to expose your feelings is to expose true-self, to love is to risk not to be loved in return.
===>Loving someone means giving them the freedom to find his way, whether it leads towards you or away from you. Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful, for only then you'll experience the fullness of humanity, and that is LOVE.
===>Only love can hurt your heart, fill you with desire and tear you apart. Only love can make you cry and only love knows why. *If you're not ready to cry, if you're not ready to take the risk, if you're not ready to feel the pain, then you're not ready to fall in love. ~ There was a time in our lives when we became afraid to fall in love 'coz every time we do, we get hurt, i figured that's why it's called falling in love
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i AM myself
1.83m, 74~76kg. a true virgo. critical and perfectionistic. erm...at least in the things i care abt. a very sporty person. plays any sports, u name it, i play it...well at least the more popular ones...haha. loves the beach and volleyball. u may encounter extreme emotions in this blog, take it wif a pinch of salt ;). all views/opinions regarding my posts are welcome~.